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When Everyone Comes First but You: The Cost of Always Putting Others Ahead of Yourself
The exhaustion that comes from being dependable. The resentment that gradually builds when we give and give but rarely feel that same level of consideration coming back to us.
Lisa Wilder
4 days ago12 min read


Vitality Through Vulnerability: Round 2
What if vulnerability isn’t a weakness, but an invitation to know yourself more deeply? When we become curious about our protective patterns, emotions, and the parts of ourselves we’ve learned to hide, we create space for greater self-understanding, authenticity, and growth. Perhaps becoming who we are isn’t about fixing ourselves at all; it’s about continuing to discover ourselves.
Lisa Wilder
6 days ago9 min read


When Life Feels Overwhelming: Why Counselling Can Be a Safe Place to Start
There is something incredibly powerful and therapeutic about having a place where you don’t have to hold it all together. A place where you don’t have to say, “I’m fine” when you aren’t. A place where you don’t have to worry about making someone else uncomfortable with your sadness, anger, grief, fear, confusion, or even the things you aren’t quite sure how to put into words yet. This is one of the reasons I believe counselling can be so important – because sometimes life
Lisa Wilder
Sep 238 min read


What Is Grief?
Grief is one of the most universal and deeply personal experiences we go through as humans. No matter how much we try to prevent it, it touches every culture, age, and stage of life. Yet, despite how common it is, grief often feels isolating, confusing, and difficult to explain. It can feel crazy-making and crushing, leaving people asking the same question when it arrives, “what is happening to me?”, or even worse, “what is wrong with me?” At its core, grief is the emoti
Lisa Wilder
Jan 275 min read


Vitality Through Vulnerability
It is through vulnerability that we grow.
Lisa Wilder
Jun 28, 20243 min read
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