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The Parts of Me That Didn’t Fit: An Adoptee’s Journey of Identity, Belonging, and Continuing to Find Herself
For a long time, I didn’t have the words for some of the things I felt. I knew I was adopted. I knew I was loved. And yet, there were parts of me that never quite seemed to fit. This is a personal reflection on adoption, identity, belonging, rejection, and the lifelong journey of learning that being different doesn’t mean being wrong.
Lisa Wilder
Oct 110 min read


Caring Beyond Our Lifetime: The Gift of Putting Our Affairs in Order
As I sit here staring at my computer screen with so much to say, I find myself noticing some significant hesitation. It is not the subject itself that has me hesitate, but the importance I feel in what I want to share and wanting it to be written in a way that it might be heard in a different way. In a way where it is embraced with openness, rather than pushed away in discomfort. There is a reason I have chosen grief and loss to focus on in my counselling practice. It is
Lisa Wilder
May 277 min read


Self-Compassion vs. Self-Care: What’s the Difference and What Is the Relationship Between the Two?
In the age of mindfulness, mental health awareness, and well-being routines, there are two terms that often get used interchangeably: self-care and self-compassion. While they both support a healthier, more balanced life, they are not the same thing, and understanding the difference and connection between them can help you build a more resilient and kind relationship with yourself. What Exactly Is Self-Care? We hear a lot about self-care these days. In fact, I might ev
Lisa Wilder
Nov 2, 20255 min read
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