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When Everyone Comes First but You: The Cost of Always Putting Others Ahead of Yourself
The exhaustion that comes from being dependable. The resentment that gradually builds when we give and give but rarely feel that same level of consideration coming back to us.
Lisa Wilder
Oct 1012 min read


Vitality Through Vulnerability: Round 2
What if vulnerability isn’t a weakness, but an invitation to know yourself more deeply? When we become curious about our protective patterns, emotions, and the parts of ourselves we’ve learned to hide, we create space for greater self-understanding, authenticity, and growth. Perhaps becoming who we are isn’t about fixing ourselves at all; it’s about continuing to discover ourselves.
Lisa Wilder
Oct 89 min read


When Life Feels Overwhelming: Why Counselling Can Be a Safe Place to Start
There is something incredibly powerful and therapeutic about having a place where you don’t have to hold it all together. A place where you don’t have to say, “I’m fine” when you aren’t. A place where you don’t have to worry about making someone else uncomfortable with your sadness, anger, grief, fear, confusion, or even the things you aren’t quite sure how to put into words yet. This is one of the reasons I believe counselling can be so important – because sometimes life
Lisa Wilder
Sep 238 min read


Kindness and Gratitude in an Increasingly Overwhelming World
We are living in a time of relentless input. News cycles run without pause, social media amplifies distress, and uncertainty often feels like the background hum of daily life. The world feels louder, faster, and increasingly divided. There are increased numbers of senseless shootings and violence, wars seem to be breaking out everywhere, and tragedy after tragedy are being reported. I hear many people describe the world as chaotic and emotionally exhausting, and almost ev
Lisa Wilder
Mar 24 min read


Vitality Through Vulnerability
It is through vulnerability that we grow.
Lisa Wilder
Jun 28, 20243 min read
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