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Optimism vs. Positivity: Why One Heals and the Other Hurts
Positivity tells you to "just be happy." Optimism says, "It's okay to feel this - and I believe you will smile again." One avoids the dark. The other grows through it.
Lisa Wilder
3 days ago3 min read


The Reality of Distorted Thoughts
A distorted thought is a thought that is not a true reflection of what is, but a thought that comes through our own internal mental filters and presents in an inaccurate or exaggerated way. These distorted thoughts often come from our past experiences, learned biases, and ways we have had to cope during stressful times, and when left unchecked can create negative thinking patterns. Although these thoughts can show up as positive distorted thoughts as well, majority of our d
Lisa Wilder
Feb 235 min read


Uncovering the Essence of Living Authentically
“To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment”. – Ralph Waldo Emerson Have you ever stopped to think about what it means to live authentically, or even gone one step further to truly contemplate how much of the way you live your life is authentic to yourself? Although the concept of living authentically may be somewhat straight forward, living in authenticity can be trickier than one might think.
Lisa Wilder
Dec 19, 20243 min read
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